People come into your life for a reason,
a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON. . .
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part,
or at an inconvenient time, this person will say
or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up
and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
And now it is time to move on.
Then people come into your life for a SEASON,
its is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall,
the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
things you must build upon in order to have a solid
emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person, (anyway) and put what you have learned
to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind
but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life.
Author:Brian A. "Drew" Chalker
Work like you don't need the money.
Love like you've never been hurt.
And dance like no one is watching.